For starters it doesn't appear as though the .swf file is in the main folder of your site. Didn't check to see whether other files were missing. This is a Coffee Cup Flash form, no? Here's a sample of the HTML I use to get CC forms to show up in Xara-built sites:
Code:
<div id="contactform">
<script type="text/javascript" src="swfobject.js"></script>
<div id="CC5134420">Form Object</div>
<script type="text/javascript">var so = new SWFObject("brandykeg_contact.swf",
"brandykeg_contact.xml", "600", "400", "7,0,0,0", "#ffffff");
so.addParam("classid", "clsid:d27cdb6e-ae6d-11cf-96b8-444553540000");
so.addParam("quality", "high");
so.addParam("scale", "noscale");
so.addParam("salign", "lt");
so.addParam("wmode", "transparent");
so.addParam("FlashVars", "xmlfile=brandykeg_contact.xml&w=600&h=400");
so.write("CC5134420");
</script>
</div>
This will validate even under XHTM Strict. Change the file names and dimension variables to match your form. Make sure your swf and xml files are in the main folder, as well. I never use the built-in Coffee Cup upload utilities, I don't trust them to get all the files and place them correctly. I recommend using a dedicated FTP client both to upload and to check the files made it.
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