Frances, you don't need a stop button, you need a PLAY button!

The music is not particularly pleasant or unpleasant, but I like many others hate being forced to listen to it, particularly without warning.

If anyone working in an open plan office browsed to your site (during their lunch hour), it would be embarassing for them.

If you want to promote your friends music, use that play button and their own link!

I would give the same advice to anybody that put music on their site, so it's nothing personal and not intended to dampen your sunshine.

Paul