Where can I get a pre-built v up-market, slick shiny 3D button pre-built Xara file?

[gwpriester]

Any time "thrown" at learning how to use Xtreme's tools should be considered time well spent. It's the old give a man a fish and he will be fed for a day. Teach a man to fish, and he will be fed for life.

Maybe you should hire a designer. That's what they do.