Dreamweaver MX - Xara Webstyle 4 that does not look anything like it should with you

[Webbie3]

I just bought the Xara Webstyle 4 and I'm having an extremly hard time using it. I can make a navigational bar and the works but...

...when I try to uploaded it to Dreamweaver I get this message "FTP error occurred access denied file does not excit or permission problem???"

Also my drop down menu does not look at all like the short video they have.

I have know idea what I'm doing wrong, but I can't even use this new program and when I email Xara they say they're to busy at the moment and come here.

Could some one Please help me.

Here's my email if there might be a problem and need to go back and forth a few times.
hollyjm3@yahoo.com

Thanks a lot, Holly