Harry, your spoons must have shrunk in the wash. Try lowering the setting to 40° else in a few years time all you'll have is a set of teaspoons!!!

I just did a Google image search for "flatware" and just about every set on the page has a tablespoon and a fork that are same size (give or take a millimetre). But, as the bishop always said to me, size doesn't matter - feel the quality!

However big or small they are, lupen, that's a wonderful image!