thank you guys, although photoshop simulates cmyk colors on screen, yet if I was to compare the colors I see in xara using simulate print colors with photoshop cmyk mode is totally different even if they use the same color profile.

I tend to trust what I see in photoshop more than xara and that is why I was a little annoyed at xara.

Even pdf exports from xara are not the same colors compared to adobe pdf exports used at the same settings and same color profile.