Ron, the mistake you have made is:
<LINK REL="SHORTCUT ICON"
HREF="/index.htm/RECMGM flag.ico">
It should be on one line not contain index.htm not be UPPER CASE and use no spaces.
Use this:
<link rel="shortcut icon" href="/recmgm-flag.ico" />
As for it disappearing? Could you have perhaps forgotten to save after editing in notepad?
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