I will certainly accept the decision of the majority here. My own personal opinion is to vote those, who post just to attack others, "out"...and I consider those sorts of attacks disruptive and a major time-waster for all here. Look at what happens every time an attack of this nature occurs---and it's not a singular event---everything just about stops and our time is tied up spent on this person just as they probably had planned. He got what he wanted...what do we get????? Well, probably more of the same from him whenever he chooses.
It's the nature of a "bully". They only understand one thing--what they perceive to be "strength"...and that doesn't include leniency towards anyone. You give him a chance, he would probably just think you're weak, "a weenie", in his mind...and that makes you an "acceptable target" once again to a person of this mind-set.
I'd just show him the door---if he comes back with a "mask" and behaves the same, just oust him again. I wouldn't put up with attacks. If the majority says let him stay, then I say don't bother to complain next time he does it again---and he probably will. I will just ignore him if that is all that is available.
I will say, however, that my first feeling about others jumping in to "defend" others posting on the forum from his attack was not at all negetive but one of pleasant surprise that the members would act in defense of others here "as friends", that they really cared about it. Chivalry, or call it what you like, is clearly not dead! I appreciated it even though I'm able to put up a "fight" if trodden upon too. Thanks everyone! I don't think the impulses of others to come to help is a bad one.
However it turns out, I hope we won't be revisiting this issue again about these people, they waste our time---let's not let them do it anymore!
---As The Crow Flies!---
Maya
"Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do, so throw off the bowlines, sail away from safe harbor, catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore, Dream, Discover."
-Mark Twain
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