I hate Xara

**panfer** · 18 December 2006, 09:46 PM

Xara takes all my free time. I have tons of laundry, housework, and million other things to do besides getting some sleep and go to work tonight. I have been working on xara since I came back from work this morning. Its 3 pm already. I tried to be away from xara for a while but I guess I got the bug again.
Oh gosh! how could I do this to me AGAIN!
I AM Xarafied!

**Soquili** · 18 December 2006, 09:50 PM

It is an addiction Niloufer, all the regulars here have it.

No known cure. I wouldn't take the cure if it existed

**panfer** · 18 December 2006, 09:55 PM

Yes Bill but how do I live a normal life? My husband or friends do not understand this, nor do they have any interest.

**Soquili** · 18 December 2006, 09:59 PM

Maybe a hypnotist can help you cut down on Xara usage?

**panfer** · 18 December 2006, 10:04 PM

What if he gets addicted. Probably charge me double.

**Soquili** · 18 December 2006, 10:07 PM

There is always that chance.

Any chance of getting your husband addicted to Xara?

**panfer** · 18 December 2006, 10:08 PM

no

**Soquili** · 19 December 2006, 12:26 AM

Sorry to hear that. Wish I knew how to help.

**WolfMoonHP** · 19 December 2006, 02:15 AM

At least you've got us as a support group...your fellow addicts!
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Will

**sallybode** · 19 December 2006, 06:29 AM

Panfer, well, you look and take in more when you draw all the time. You just don't see what you think you do until you force yourself to notice the details. I think we take in only a small portion of our visual information so we are able to navigate across a room without tripping over our own two feet. (Sometimes I think there is a extra as I even read sometimes when walking).

Maybe what Raymond (Intbel) meant by his shadow not looking right, he is now paying attention to what everything looks like.

This is good, it is being alive awar, and we are getting to chronicle it.

So what if it is addicting. So is happiness.

Discover who you are and become what you have the potential to be. Your husband ought to have eyes to see below the surface of you and any dust on the end table. If you really love another person, you want them to be happy. It is about growth for him too, then isn't it?