I'm really glad everyone expresses their views here. Everything was just fine until....
I try to be "understanding"...people sometimes just have "a bad day" and say things they really don't mean...no one is perfect. I think Ross and others here made many good points regarding "fanaticism"--it's a dangerous thing. We are a global group and all the patriotic fervor the U.S. has whipped up isn't agreed with by all. I missed the part about the Canadian Flag and the U.S. olympic team's behavior--I would have thought that was really inappropriate also!
Anyway--this is a graphics forum. We discuss art and art-related topics, and we were doing just that. This isn't really the place to try to psychoanalyze others.
We all do our best to be helpful and it works here better than you will find elsewhere. We are polite, and I think people control themselves pretty well even under rude attacks. It would be nice to think that you can change others behavior, but you can't. People have to decide they need to and want to change before anything of the sort could happen. This forum isn't about this. My experience has not shown that rude people will stop it if you just keep taking it, ignore it, or be extra-attentive to them. They (adults) know what they are doing, and for whatever reason it works for them, and has been how they get through life...whether we like it or not.
It's not the mission of these forums to analyze people and make them change. We can feel sorry for those types...but we can't make them "see the light" if we haven't already in the numerous topics discussed and enjoyed by all calmly and peacefully. As an adult, Fontman knew what he was doing...which was completely unnecessary. Do we need to put up with attacks? I don't think we do. Will he suddenly become "Mr. Sensitive" and behave? Don't hold your breath.
I can't solve others problems for them, even if I wanted to. All of us here have very important and involved lives of our own to tend to. Life is indeed too short to let certain types of people try and make you miserable...
Let's move on GroWeb! The last post I made to the mentioned flag tutorial was just about your image there which I liked...I haven't been back to give audience to anymore rudeness from Fontman. I won't put up with it from anyone. None of us needs to...the "welcome mat" is out, but that doesn't mean we have to be "doormats".
---As The Crow Sees It---
Maya
"Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do, so throw off the bowlines, sail away from safe harbor, catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore, Dream, Discover."
-Mark Twain
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